SENIOR MOMENTS

Here I am, at a stage where the ‘Senior Moments’ become more frequent, but it has taken me all this time to realise that the holiday season is not defined by the exchange of gifts alone. We give and receive, but the gift of love is something we can all share by the memories we can create together. Almost before the holiday is over, presents are lost or become outdated but special memories are something that last forever. So this year I have decided to concentrate on becoming a Memory Maker, and who knows, some of you might like to join in as well!

Make Your Own Memories - During this festive season, do I want to remember the joy I felt, the connections I made, the gifts of the heart I have given and the special moments I have shared, or do I want to remember myself as a stressed out, unhappy and angry person.

Make Memories for the Children - If you have children or grandchildren and you are feeling stressed about all the things you have to do, stop for a moment. Try to imagine twenty years from now, what do think these same children will want to remember. What memories would you want to define their childhood? Then create them. Remember, it’s not all about presents!

Start a Tradition - It’s never too late to start a new tradition. Traditions connect one generation to the next and make life more meaningful. As a family, make at least one visit to your place of worship or join a local carol choir. Volunteer or sponsor a family in need or even tell a story or read a specific book. Starting a tradition allow it to take on a life of its own which will continue to create more memories each and every year.

Give Meaningful Gifts - In a world of so much stuff and maxed out credit cards… buy less this year, yet give more. Give more by giving gifts that have meaning. So whether it’s a special book, a picture, a poem, a painting, or a symbol of your love, give a gift with meaning and it will create a memory forever.

What memories will you make?………………………….......mgs372wds211209